Body Language DISTRACTIONS You May Not Be Aware Of!

Uncategorized Mar 02, 2021

So, let’s think about it for a moment. You’re standing on the stage and seconds from starting. You stand behind the podium, silently ticking through all of your major points. You’ve prepared sufficiently enough, and it feels good. Then - BAM! What am I going to do with my hands? Do I walk around or stand stock still? Help!

 Don’t panic. You’ve just gone into body betrayal syndrome. It’s a condition defined as not knowing how your body is supposed to coordinate with your words. But we can fix that right here with a few suggestions. 

Strictly behind the podium presentations only require the movement of your face, hands and upper body. These gestures must be planned in advance. Your audience can be easily distracted by odd or emphatic gesticulations. Consider the times you’ve been in an audience. Now imagine the speaker starts waving his/her arms in an aggrandized way. Would you lose track of the speaker’s words (and point) and,...

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Getting to the Heart of the Matter

Uncategorized Feb 19, 2021


From the start, most of us recognize that we have to say something impactful to grab the attention of the humans sitting in front of us. In fact, that’s usually the part we have the most anxiety about. But think on this question. Is that cutesy joke or humorous story what you want your audience to remember after they walk away? Probably not.

So, let’s take a look at the heart of the matter. In other words, here are some guidelines on how to develop our main points.

First, we must determine our purpose. There are three general purposes to pick from. Are we attempting to inform, to persuade or to entertain? Once we identify which, then we must break things down. If our purpose is to inform, then we would need to jot down a sentence that defines what we believe our audience must learn. If we are going to persuade, we must record both the pro and con sides of the topic...

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Do I Really Have to Dress Up?

Uncategorized Jan 18, 2021

So, it’s time to give your presentation. You mentally flip through what to wear, battling with your thoughts. “I’ve already worked hard on my content. I’ve practiced my delivery. But do I really have to put on the suit? Will anyone even care? They absolutely will!

 Any time we stand up before others, we are putting ourselves into a position of both credibility and authority. Not only does our audience assume we know our topic, but they will also expect us to “look” successful as well. In fact, our attire is often the first thing noticed. I can’t tell you how to dress in one short blog, but here are a few basic pointers that will help.

 Always lean to the conservative side when making wardrobe choices. Most likely, your audience is composed of a wide variety people that have a plethora of tastes and preferences. It’s best to stay in the middle of the proverbial road. 

Clean and pressed is the name of the game. Nobody...

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Embracing a Realistic 2021  

Uncategorized Dec 10, 2020

If there is one thing that we’ve all learned in 2020, it is this: Sometimes, bad things just happen. This past year will certainly memorialize the concept, but perhaps, now is the time to make a few proactive plans that prohibit the lostness we tended to feel during this very long year. Let’s decide, together, how we will not only survive, but thrive in 2021. Here are three tips to get started.

Decide NOW what you will focus on in the coming year. Sure, there is still the possibility (and almost a certainty) that unusual events (vaccines?) will continue to occur in the future, but don’t let those things distract you from what matters in your personal life. Take the time right now to think about how you’d like to finish in 2021. Picture yourself at this time next year. What have you achieved? What have you learned? What do you singularly need to chase for twelve months to complete that vision? Jot down your ideas, aspirations and goals. Once you’ve...

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Slide Through: How to Effectively use Slideshows in your Presentation

Uncategorized Nov 20, 2020

Visual tools can be useful - and maybe a bit intimidating to consider - when giving a presentation. Wait a minute! You want me to add machinery and technology to my speaking skills? I’m just learning how to walk up to the podium without my knees quivering! It’s okay…take a deep breath. With a few guidelines, you can take advantage of visuals and improve your professional profile at the same time.

What type of graphics should I use? 

The simple answer is whatever improves your presentation. That basically includes graphs, charts, quotes, photographs or video clips.


How do I decide which ones to use? 

Again, whatever works. But here are the primary purposes of graphics:

  • To summarize information

  • To simplify

  • To reduce the number of words spoken by you (and even give yourself time to regroup or relax a bit)

  • To clarify certain points that you’ve made

  • To create more impact. Remember the adage, “a picture is worth a...

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How to speak with more ENERGY!

Uncategorized Sep 18, 2020
 Have you ever walked away from the podium and, within ten minutes or so, felt yourself actually wither? Maybe you’ve experienced a sudden rush of fatigue or your legs turning to Jello - to the point where you needed to find a place to sit for just a minute. Have you discovered the reason why your body must take a minute to recoup? It’s because the act of speaking is actually a huge transference of energy. As any speaker invests in an audience, there is a ton of activity going on! And since, you’re doing so much work, you may as well get the most out of it. Here are a few tips for maximizing your special brand of pizazz!


Confidence is key. Your audience will buy into most any topic if you demonstrate your absolute commitment up front. Make sure your crowd knows that you know what you’re all about from the moment you step onto the platform. Confidence shows in several ways: your smile, step, and how you posture yourself. No shrinking back. Engage!

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Don’t Forget to Posture Yourself!

Uncategorized Aug 03, 2020

Did you know that your body language often speaks louder than your voice, as you give your presentation? The truth is, no matter how great your speech, if you are motionless, expressionless or monotone, your audience will fade away into their respective to-do lists in a matter of minutes. So, how do we prevent this? We can start with the tips outlined below. Awareness is over half of the battle, so let’s refresh ourselves with a three vital, and proven, body language premises. 

2) Maintain an open body. 

Face your audience as often as possible,...

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Freedom to Speak!

Uncategorized Jul 04, 2020
Three areas to use your voice bring about positive change. 

 This new season of life has pushed issues, principles and morality to the front of internet feeds, television screens and our minds. If we have reflected on these topics, we have realized that there are so many issues the average individual can choose to speak up about right now, in an effort to contribute to bringing forth positive change. That doesn’t necessarily mean we have to take to the streets in protest (although it is a choice). But we can use our voices when the opportunity arises. Let’s look at three areas where our voices can and should be counted.

1) Start with those closest to you. 

First and foremost, now is the time to address any disparagement among family members. We must keep in mind that our goals are not to change the comments of other individuals. It is to design and enforce our own boundaries concerning a situation. “I’d prefer it if we didn’t talk...

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Online Etiquette

Uncategorized Jun 08, 2020

Perhaps you’ve already been 'Zooming', using Microsoft Teams or some other application for distance meetings. Maybe you’re just now coming to the conclusion that online meetings/presentations will be a large part of our new normal going forward. Either way, it might be helpful to brush up on a bit of online meeting etiquette.

 1) Lighting. Your lighting may dictate where you’ll need to position yourself. Straight on lighting works best for online screens, but aimed AT you, not coming from behind you and pointing towards your camera. You can practice using the flip aspect of the photo app on your phone to determine where you can avoid shadows and such. If you are a person who wears glasses, be mindful of any glare reflecting off of your optical lenses.

 2) Background Basics. Do a study on what others are using for backgrounds. Check out the reporters and talk show hosts who are continuing to produce their programs from home. The bookcase background is...

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Enunciation Pronunciation

Uncategorized Apr 06, 2020
It’s definitely not a term we hear very often, yet it plays a vital part in every speech ever given on the planet. Enunciation, defined, is the act of pronouncing words and – believe it or not – there is actually an art to the process. Let’s look at a few tips that will help those of us who might be known for tripping over our own tongues.



Start by focusing on consonant-vowel combinations that give you pause. Certain words are more difficult to say aloud than others. We can overcome this pesky irritant by creating a list of our current offenders. Once we have ten or so words to focus on, we can participate in a routine meant to overcome.


Now repeat, repeat, repeat.

Norman Vincent Peale, known for his work concerning the power of positive thinking, tells us, “Repetition of the same thought or physical action develops into a habit which, repeated frequently enough, becomes an automatic reflex.” Don’t expect the...

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